Romantic Ideas To Get You In The Mood
No matter how good of a relationship you are in, there will be times when your sex life will seem like a sweet memory. This happens to married people pretty frequently. When you are with someone all the time, you tend to fall into a routine that can be hard to get out of. To alleviate this humdrum routine, you will need to get creative and try to spice things up a little bit. This could be something very simple or you could spend a little time and money on something truly creative.
An easy one to try that usually is very successful is to buy something that you wouldn't normally wear and greet your partner in it when you are usually getting ready for bed. This can be anything from a cheap outfit from the lingerie section of your favorite store to something more elaborate like a corset from a specialty shop. This all depends on your tastes and what you think your partner will like. If they are scared to death of clowns, dressing like a clown is probably not the way to go.
Flowers and candles are always a good choice. Make sure to get candles that smell really good but aren't terribly strong. You could put on some relaxing music also. These are some of the oldest ideas in the book but it's easy to overlook them. You can always slightly modify this basic stuff to suit your own personal tastes.
One of the best ways to get both you and your partner in the mood is to book a hotel room somewhere. It doesn't have to be fancy and can even be a few blocks from your house. The change of scenery will usually have a dramatic effect on you both and it can give you an opportunity to let loose. Get a bottle of wine or two and try to avoid the television set unless you are ready to go to sleep. You don't want to spend money on a hotel room and spend the night doing what you'd normally do at home. Instead, try to plan a night out followed by a stay in the hotel. Be creative and avoid anything normal. If you always eat Mexican food on Fridays, go to an Italian place instead.